from Robert at learn-massage-online.com

Which would you rather be touched by? A human being or a machine?

Recently I ran across this article…

http://www.charlotte.com (archived)

It was suggesting that robots are beginning to replace human beings at certain spas. And that a new invention could be paving the way. Makes for a nice story and PR release, but give me a break.

As a professional massage therapist, I have tried and used many machines for ‘relaxation’ and NONE of them come even remotely close to the value of two warm hands and the rest of the human being attached to those hands. The electromagnetic distortion alone created by those machines is enough to cause me more stress, not less.

I have sat in those massage chairs that are designed to heat, vibrate and shake and cajole you, and they can begin to allow for the physiological relaxation response, but that’s about it. I certainly don’t feel like I do after a REAL live massage.

It’s quite ironic, one of the reasons we carry so much stress is that the majority of us sit behind machines all day. Now we’re going to go to a machine and have that machine work our muscles and relax us? Not me. Give me a real live person any day. You can feel the energy or resonance of compassion and caring and universal love from another human being. A machine doesn’t care.

When two people touch each other, there is an exchange of energy. Literally. In one of my classes I show people the energy ball. It’s a little plastic ball with two metal strips on it. I stand in a circle of about a dozen people all holding hands. Except I have one finger on one strip of this little energy ball and instead of holding hands with the person next me, they are also touching a strip on the energy ball. Guess what?? It lights up and makes a noise. In fact, one person anywhere in that circle can stop holding hands with the person next to them and the energy ball light goes out. It’s a great metaphor to show that we’re all connected. And that we transfer energy to and from each other.

And in complex ways that we certainly don’t understand and shouldn’t have the arrogance to think we do. Considering all the different possible frequencies and harmonics involved in that energy exchange, that we don’t even think about or for the most part aren’t even aware of, it’s truly a mind boggling experience. Just simple human touch. And actually we transfer energy just being close to one another, but that’s a different topic.

If you’ve ever had a massage and paid attention to the exchange of energy flow between you and your therapist, then you have an idea of what I am referring to. You can tell, even with your eyes closed, what your therapist is sensing, whether or not they are paying attention to you, whether or not they are focused, whether or not it’s going to be a great massage or they’re still working on the basics. You can feel how well the energy is flowing through them and where the restrictions are in them. Try it and see for yourself, next time.

Massage is so much more than a mechanical response. It’s one of the oldest healing art forms. It truly does involve body, mind and soul. And the information and energy you can perceive through your hands is and always will be more than a machine could even begin to offer.

So my vote might be a little biased, but for my money, give me a real live person any day of the week.